Biblical communication principles

I don’t know about you, but I really dislike being put on the defensive. Consequently, I try to keep the “Golden Rule” on the forefront of my mind, which oftentimes helps me from putting anyone else on the defensive.

In Matthew 7:12 Jesus says, “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.”

Another good reminder, especially while in the context of a conversation with someone that can easily cross over to one or both becoming offended … it would be wise to have a plan in place to filter your thoughts through, rather than just saying whatever pops into your mind.

As a follower of Christ, consider having a brief conversation with the Holy Spirit who lives within you, and ask Him if what you’re thinking about saying is true. Then, follow His prompting.

Next, ask the Holy Spirit if whatever your thinking about saying is necessary in the moment to share. Then, proceed according to however He leads you.

The Apostle Paul encourages us in Ephesians 4:15 to, “Speak the truth in love.”

Without having a rock solid communication plan in place, it’s all but guaranteed that we’ll regret saying things that end up being hurtful and unnecessary.

Conflict resolution from a Biblical perspective has to do with us becoming more spiritually mature, by allowing the power and the presence of the Holy Spirit to lead and guide us moment-by-moment.

Next time you’re tempted to lash out with words that you know won’t ‘land well’ … give yourself a brief time-out, check in with the Holy Spirit, and trust the next words that come out of your mouth will be kinder and more effective than whatever you would have said prior to seeking His counsel.